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“Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one.” — Hans Selye

Stress Awareness Week in 2026 takes place during the first full week of November, with Stress Awareness Day falling on 4 November in the UK. This annual event encourages schools, workplaces and communities to explore stress-related topics and promote wellbeing.

Founded by the International Stress Management Association UK (ISMA UK), the 2026 theme focuses on the future of wellbeing in a changing world: “Shaping the Future of Stress and Wellbeing: Rehumanising the Workplace.”

More information about the event and ISMA UK’s work can be found at www.isma.org.uk.

The Cost of Stress

The impact of stress on UK businesses and the wider economy is significant. Economic modelling published in March 2023 by AXA UK and the Centre for Economic and Business Research revealed that work-related stress and burnout were costing the UK economy £28 billion a year, resulting in 23.3 million sick days annually.

AXA’s Mind Health Study also found that almost half of the UK population (47%) were either struggling or languishing, defined as experiencing emotional distress or lacking positive wellbeing.

Understanding Stress and Its Effects

According to the NHS, identifying the cause of stress is the first step towards feeling better. Turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms such as smoking, drinking or excessive caffeine, may offer temporary relief but ultimately worsens stress and wellbeing.

Feeling powerless or believing that nothing can be done often intensifies stress. Building emotional strength, taking control where possible, nurturing supportive relationships and adopting a positive outlook are all key components of effective stress management.

NHS Stress Busters

The NHS website provides these 10 stress-busting suggestions:

Be active – Exercise will not eliminate stress, but it can reduce emotional intensity, clear your thoughts and help you approach challenges more calmly.

Take control of what you can – A sense of helplessness is one of the biggest contributors to stress. Taking even small steps towards control can be empowering and help you find solutions that work for you.

Connect with people – A strong support network of colleagues, friends and family can ease pressure and help you see situations from a different perspective. Talking things through often leads to clarity and new ideas.

Have some “me time” – Long working hours can leave little room for enjoyment or rest. Setting aside time each week for relaxation, hobbies or socialising is essential for balance.

Challenge yourself – Setting personal or professional goals — such as learning a new skill or taking up a sport — can build confidence and resilience, helping you manage stress more effectively.

Avoid unhealthy habits – Alcohol, smoking and caffeine may feel like coping tools, but they create new problems in the long term. Tackling the root cause of stress is far more beneficial.

Help other people – Supporting others through volunteering or simple acts of kindness can boost resilience and improve your own wellbeing.

Work smarter, not harder – Prioritise tasks that make a real difference and accept that you can’t do everything. Focus on what matters most.

Try to be positive – Look for positives and practice gratitude. Writing down three things that went well each day can shift your mindset and reduce stress.

Accept the things you can’t change – Changing a difficult situation isn’t always possible. Try to concentrate on the things you do have control over. For example, if your company is making redundancies, you could focus on the things that you can control, such as looking for a new job.

This week, take a few moments to pause and reflect. Consider how your stress levels are at the moment. What action can you take to ensure that stress becomes something empowering and manageable rather than overwhelming?

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“The life of inner peace, being harmonious and without stress, is the easiest type of existence.” Norman Vincent Peale.

It’s important, if we are to be the best we can be personally and professionally, that we learn to use our energy and mind in the most productive ways possible. One powerful way to do this is by developing our inner peace.

As I’ve grown older, I’ve sought to be more accepting of people and situations. I’ve found that this has enabled me to feel calmer and as a result I’ve developed greater inner peace.

It has also preserved precious energy for the things I can influence positively. Rather than expending energy wishing things or people were different or trying to rewrite history, it’s important that we work with what is.

Acceptance is defined in the dictionary as “the action of consenting to receive or undertake something offered.” It is also described as “the process or fact of being received as adequate, valid or suitable and agreement with or belief in an idea or explanation.”

When we cultivate greater acceptance in our lives, we can begin to focus our minds, time and energy on how we want things to be. With this clarity, we move forward from where we are now. We can decide what we can do to build upon our current position and develop it into what we desire and aspire to.

Socrates offered a helpful reminder of the power of acceptance and how it supports us through change: “The secret of change is to focus your energy not on fighting the old but on building the new.”

How many times have you fallen into the trap—after something hasn’t gone as planned—of replaying the situation in your mind and wishing it had a different outcome? It’s easy to do but ultimately a pointless exercise. No matter how many times you replay it, what happened isn’t going to change. It is what it is.

Being more accepting of others allows us to be in a state of non-judgement and to hold no malice toward them. As a result, we develop greater tolerance of other people’s views and opinions. We accept people as they are rather than how we would like them to be. We begin to notice their strengths and qualities rather than their flaws and weaknesses.

We can apply this principle to ourselves too. We can become more accepting of who we are. We can develop pride in our qualities, accomplishments and achievements. We can expand our appreciation of the value we bring to the world and the contribution we make.

Acceptance also encourages us to use our natural gifts and talents rather than spend time and energy focusing on our weaknesses or what we lack. It allows us to stop wasting time comparing ourselves to others. Instead, we become more single minded and focused on our goals and desires. When we encounter difficulty or challenges, we can choose to accept what is, take the lesson from it and move forward with greater wisdom. After all, tomorrow is another day.

Reinhold Niebuhr captured this beautifully in his well-known words: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can’t change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.”

We can also develop the habit of accepting gifts and compliments from others and be grateful for all that we have in life. In doing so, we cultivate an attitude of gratitude that lifts our mood and happiness levels.

This week, why not pause for a few moments to reflect. Consider where you may need to develop greater acceptance of situations and people both personally and professionally.

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“Sometimes letting go is an act of far greater power than holding on.” — Eckhart Tolle

The clocks go back this Sunday, marking the end of British Summer Time. As the season shifts, it’s a natural moment to pause, reflect and gently take stock. Autumn invites us to slow down, evaluate where we are and consider what we want to carry forward and what we’re ready to release.

Take a look at any personal or professional goals you set earlier in the year. Are they still relevant? If not, give yourself permission to let them go. If they still matter, you can re‑energise them and create a simple plan to move them forward before the year ends.

This is also a good time to think about balance, happiness and wellbeing. Are there areas of your life — work, health, sleep, diet, relationships — that need a small shift or a fresh approach?

A powerful question to ask yourself is: “What am I no longer willing to tolerate in my life?” Your answer may reveal habits, routines or patterns that need to be changed or released. Once you identify them, you can turn your attention to the healthy habits you’d like to build instead.

You may also notice some mental clutter — overthinking, overwhelm or feeling stuck in your head. Or perhaps there’s physical clutter that needs clearing: things you no longer use, unfinished tasks or items that simply take up space. Letting go of both mental and physical clutter creates room for new experiences, new energy and a simpler way of living.

Like trees shedding their leaves in autumn, you can shed anything that no longer serves you. Letting go isn’t always easy — the first step is often the hardest — but once you begin, momentum builds. Remind yourself of the long‑term benefits of the changes you’re making. Clarity makes sacrifice feel worthwhile.

This week, take a few moments to reflect on what you need to release before the year ends and what healthy habits you’d like to welcome in. Small steps now can help you enter 2027 feeling lighter, clearer and ready for a fresh start.

To arrange a free no obligation consultation, please contact Stephen Pauley via the contact form or by e mail: Stephen@befirstclass.co.uk