Given it is the time in the UK when many people take a summer holiday, this week’s blog links the seaside with stretching targets and overcoming procrastination.
When you have stretching targets to meet, a big project or task to complete it is very easy to feel overwhelmed and not know where to begin. You can begin to doubt you have the capability to complete the task and become anxious and procrastinate.
I was once asked to coach a manager that had been appointed to run a unit which had very stretching annual financial targets to meet.
He has previously been a sales person who had met his personal targets and this was his first management job. His success as a salesperson had led to his promotion.
He now had to lead, motivate and inspire a team of sales people and it required a different set of skills, abilities and mindset than he had become accustomed to.
When we first met, he told me how he felt overwhelmed at all the tasks he had to perform and had a massive sense of responsibility for the team he was now leading. He was telling himself he made a mistake in accepting the job as he was not properly equipped to do it. He felt anxious that the team were not hitting the unit targets.
He said he felt overworked, he was trying hard and although not hitting unit target, when we reviewed it, the results were better than the same period in the previous year and this piece of clarity helped him to feel a little better.
He told me that he knew if he performed certain tasks and disciplines, it would improve performance but his mind was scrambled and he could not see the wood for the trees some days. He admitted that he was procrastinating on certain things and we explored the reasons why this may be the case.
It transpired that he was looking at some tasks as mountains to climb. He was looking at the whole rather than focusing on manageable chunks.
As a result the tasks seemed too big and it was preventing him from even starting to tackle them.
He had got into the mindset of thinking that any effort he applied would not make a difference. I convinced him that if he never started a project he would be sure to not succeed!
I relayed to him a story that I was told once by a friend on holiday when we were on a beach and came across a starfish.
The story is about a man who was walking on a beach when he noticed a young boy picking something off the sand and throwing it into the sea. As the man got closer to the boy he saw that the objects were starfish and the beach was covered in them.
“Why in the world are you throwing starfish into the water?” He asked the boy as he approached.
“If these starfish are on the beach tomorrow morning when the tide goes out they will die” replied the boy, continuing with his work.
“But that’s ridiculous!” cried the man. “Look around you, there is a massive area of beach and thousands of starfish. How can you believe that what you are doing could possibly make a difference?”
The young boy picked up another starfish, paused thoughtfully and remarked as he tossed it into the waves, “it makes a difference to this one.”
The moral of the story is that what is not attempted will never be accomplished: even the smallest efforts defeat apathy.
After relaying the story to my client, we set about devising action steps and plans for the projects that he was putting off.
He told me he would give it his best shot and we met monthly for the next six months to review progress and to ensure there was an accountability mechanism in place.
He never looked back from that moment of clarity. He regained confidence in his ability; he put things into better perspective. He got more energised and overcome his procrastination.
He maintained his disciplined, deliberate approach to tasks and it stood him in good stead. He also had better engagement with his team, inspiring them to better results and to unlocking their potential.
The result was that he stayed in his job, the team met their targets and the unit experienced their best year ever in performance terms. How thankful he was that he persevered with the job and did not quit as he was contemplating doing when we first met.
This week, why not take a few moments to think about a task or project (professionally or personally) that you are procrastinating on. What action could you take to get things moving?
Alternatively, do you need to let it go and focus on other things?
Quote for the week:
“Thinking will not overcome fear but action will.” W. Clement Stone.
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