Month: January 2025 Page 1 of 2

“A goal is a dream with a deadline.” Napoleon Hill.

Historically, the start of each year is a time for people to set goals and resolutions for the year ahead. Have you devised some clear goals and targets for 2025? How are you doing with your personal goals and aspirations for this year?

It might be that you set out with good intentions but you have decided to give up already! If so, you are not alone.  I read an article recently that said most people lose motivation and give up on their resolutions by the 18th/19th January!

At the start of each year, many people resolve to get healthier, exercise more or lose weight etc. Other goals tend to be to save more money or spend less, learn a new skill, quit smoking, find a new job, read more, drink less alcohol, spend more time with family and friends etc.

People failing to follow through on their intentions can be put down to a variety of factors. It could be that the goal is too vague. They may lack self-discipline or put other people’s needs before their own. They may suffer from procrastination, not worked out a clear motivation for the goal or have spent insufficient time planning their approach.

Another reason that people don’t stick to their resolutions is that they have too many. Sometimes less is more!

A step-by-step approach to changing your lifestyle can be effective.

One way to do this is to decide to master one behavioural change before you move onto another. This helps with focus and means that you don’t have to seek to make a whole lot of changes all at once. If your goal is to lose weight or to get healthier, you could break this down into bite sized chunks.

This approach ties in with the view that it takes 21 days to break a habit and between 25 and 28 days to create a new one.

So, with the above in mind and in an effort to help you to be one of the few people who achieve their personal goals in 2025, I suggest that you adopt a different approach to New Year resolutions this year.

How about viewing 2025 as a one-year transformation? Your life can be transformed one month at a time. You can do this by having different monthly resolutions.

You can decide at the start of each month what you would like to focus on that month in an effort to upgrade your life. I suggest that you only take on a new monthly resolution if you feel you have successfully mastered and integrated new behaviours and habits from the previous month.

Imagine how your life will be transformed in a years’ time if you commit and successfully follow through on this new approach to resolutions.

This week why not take some time out to reflect and consider if monthly resolutions will work for you. If so, decide what your first area of focus in February will be.

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“What the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve.” Napoleon Hill.

Boxing legend Muhammad Ali would have been 83 last Friday (January 17^th). He died on June 3^rd 2016, aged 74 and he is considered to be one of the greatest sporting figures the world has ever known.

Born Cassius Clay, he first tasted success in boxing by winning a gold medal at the 1960 Olympics. He went on to become the world heavyweight champion, winning 56 of his 61 fights. He retired from boxing in 1981.

He was crowned “Sportsman of the Century” by Sports Illustrated and “Sports Personality of the Century” by the BBC. He was renowned for his pre- and post-fight talk and bold fight predictions just as much as his boxing skills inside the ring. I remember as a child watching him being interviewed by Michael Parkinson and being inspired by his oratory. He said that “he floated like a butterfly and stung like a bee.” He also had the greatest affirmation of all, “I am the greatest” (before he was).

I remember smiling at his declaration that he was the greatest. He truly believed it and many people have described him that way subsequently. Perhaps this provides some evidence and validation of the importance of self-belief and how affirmations like this combined with practical action can help dreams to become reality.

One of the reasons for Ali’s success as a boxer was that he was a big exponent of visualisation. He called this “future history.” It’s a mental process that we can all use to programme our minds for success.

Ali used to mentally rehearse every fight he had in his mind many times before stepping into the ring. He would see himself at the end of a fight with his arms aloft with the referee declaring him the winner and the champion. He would imagine hearing the crowd chanting his name and celebrating his victory.

He paid much attention to detail with his visualisation and used to back this up with predictions pre fight. He would tell his opponent when he was going to win the fight and predict which round, he would be declared the winner. He was extremely well prepared when he stepped into the ring both physically and mentally.

In his mind he had already won the fight and he would direct all his focus and energy on making this a reality. He would give his sub conscious mind an instruction to find ways to help him to make his visions come true.

Muhammad Ali not only lived his life with a strong sense of vision but also with intention and this led to his success in his career.

It could be that you could use the power of visualisation to picture yourself achieving a goal. Maybe it can be realising a successful outcome for a project you are involved with. You might imagine increasing your income, generating higher sales results, losing weight or improving your score at golf. Alternatively, you may like to see yourself running further and faster or improving your performance in a sport or hobby that you are involved with

If you would like to give future history a go here are a few tips on the steps to take:

• Consider/think about a goal or outcome that you would like to achieve.
• Visualise achieving it and have total belief in this happening.
• Notice in your imagination the sounds you can hear, what you can feel and see around you.
• Repeat the above as many times as you like. You can make the image brighter, the sounds louder and with more intense feeling.

Once you have concluded your visualisation, you can switch the vision from your imagination and take practical action steps to make it a reality with clear intention and focus.

This week why not take a few moments to think and reflect on how visualisation could help you to create a picture of positive outcomes for a goal you are pursuing or a project that you are involved with.

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“Live life to the fullest and focus on the positive.” Matt Cameron.

In last week’s blog, I gave some tips on setting and achieving personal goals. Below is a story about frogs which includes a suggestion to follow when you are pursuing your goals and dreams.

The Frog Story

There was once a bunch of tiny frogs, who arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants. The race began.

No one in the crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. They shouted, “Oh, way too difficult! They will NEVER make it to the top” and “Not a chance. The tower is too high.”

The tiny frogs began collapsing, one by one except for those who, in a fresh tempo, were climbing higher and higher….

The crowd continued to yell, “It’s too difficult! No one will make it!”

More tiny frogs got tired and gave up… But one continued higher and higher. This one wouldn’t give up! And he reached the top.

Everyone wanted to know how this one frog managed such a great feat.  What was his secret?

…This little frog was deaf!

The lesson to be drawn from this story is to ignore the pessimism of others who say that you can’t achieve your goals and dreams. Listening to them can take your dreams from you. Stay positive.

This week, why not pause for a few moments to reflect and consider what or who helps you to stay positive in the pursuit of your goals and dreams.

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