Month: June 2025

What do you need to spot to help you to achieve your goals?

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve.” Napoleon Hill.

Last week whilst out for my daily walk, I noticed a house up for sale in our neighbourhood. It was being advertised for sale by an estate agent that I hadn’t heard of. A few days later, whilst driving in a town six miles away from where I live, I saw another house being sold by the same agent.

This is a simple example of the work being done by a part of the brain known as the reticular activating system (RAS).

The RAS plays a vital part in our ability to notice things, to achieve goals and is an important element in the process of visualisation. It’s an automatic mechanism inside our brain that brings relevant information to our attention.

Visualisation is the act of creating compelling and vivid pictures in our mind. It activates the creative powers of our sub conscious mind.  It’s a practice used by many people from all walks of life to help them accomplish their goals. Many sports people use the technique as part of their training and preparation.

The RAS will help us spot opportunities that will move us towards our goals and vision. It acts as a kind of filtering system between our conscious and subconscious minds. It takes instructions from our conscious mind and passes them on to our subconscious. It focuses our brain to notice things and available resources that were always present but had previously gone unnoticed.

On your next journey try it for yourself by looking out for yellow vehicles. These vehicles would have been on your journey but you may not have noticed them if you hadn’t made a point of consciously looking for them. You may be surprised by how many you spot!

Researchers have found that when we perform a task in life, our brain uses the same processes it would if we were merely visualising the task. Our brain sees no difference between visualising something and doing it. Our RAS can’t distinguish between ‘real events’ and ‘synthetic’ reality. In other words, it tends to believe whatever messages we give it.

Visualisation actually magnetizes and attracts to us, the people, resources and opportunities that we need to achieve a goal. If we give it images of our dream house, perfect partner, the career that we would like or the places we want to visit, it will provide ideas and solutions to help us achieve those dreams.

This week, why not pause for a few moments to reflect and consider what resources, people, ideas or information you would like your RAS to spot to help you achieve your personal vision and goals.

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What is Karma?

“When you think everything is someone else’s fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realise everything springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy.” Dalai Lama.

In last week’s blog, I mentioned Karma. There are often misunderstandings about what Karma really is and how it applies to our lives. The definition of Karma may change depending on who you ask. For example, in Sanskrit, Karma literally means “action.” Some people stick to the traditional meaning of the Eastern religions, while others interpret it from a more Western perspective of good and bad. As a result, it can lead to different views on how Karma applies to life.

Therefore, I thought it would be helpful to feature Karma in more detail in this week’s blog. A book I found useful in gaining a better understanding of the definition of Karma is 12 laws of Karma by Manhardeep Singh.

In his book, Singh references Tejal Patel, a specialist in meditation and mindfulness. He sees Karma as a cycle of cause and effect related to action rather than the result. And since it doesn’t set this future in stone, says Patel, we can change our life through our current decisions, thoughts and actions.

Singh’s book features the philosophy behind Karma and its basic principles. He describes these as the 12 Laws of Karma. They are not laws in the genuine sense of the word but guidelines. He offers the view that they are constantly in play, whether you realise it or not and when you live by these Laws you create good Karma in your life, theoretically increasing the likelihood of good things happening.

He says that that everything is energy, including our thoughts and emotions. which are energy in motion. So, everything we do creates corresponding energy that comes back to us in one form or another.

Essentially everything we do generates a positive or negative consequence. Singh says in the book that Karma is a philosophy of how to live our lives so we can truly become the best version of ourselves and live the most fulfilling life we desire.

The guidelines can help us to understand how Karma really works and how to create good Karma in our life. They are summarised below.

1.The Law of Cause & Effect

Whatever thought or energy that we put into the universe will come back to us, either good or bad. We get what we give in life. In order to get what we want we need to embody and be worthy of those things. Essentially, we reap what we sow.

2. The Law of Creation

Life doesn’t happen by itself; we need to make it happen. Therefore, we need to make efforts to create and surround ourselves with what and who we want to be. In doing so we then can create the future we want. It’s important that we use skills and strengths to benefit others not just ourselves.

3. The Law of Humility

We must accept something in order to change it. We have to be humble enough to accept that our present reality results from past actions. We need to think humbly so we can understand and accept any mistakes or weaknesses before taking the next step. Accept reality and make changes.

4. The Law of Growth

When we change ourselves, our lives change too. Growth begins in us. Be the change you want to see in the world. When we change who and what we are within our hearts, our lives follow suit and change too.

5. The Law of Responsibility

We must take responsibility for what is in our lives as we are the owner of what happens to us in life. We are the product of the choices we make and therefore we need to take ownership of our actions rather than keep looking outside ourselves to find excuses.

6. The Law of Connection

The past, present and future are all connected. Who we are today results from our previous actions and who we are tomorrow will result from our actions today. Everything and everyone are connected in some way. Everything we have experienced has led us to the next thing and the next.

7. The Law of Focus

We can’t think of two different things at the same time. Focusing on too many things can slow down progress and lead to frustration and disappointment. We need to direct our full attention to one task in order to accomplish it in the best possible way.

8. The Law of Giving and Hospitality

Our behaviour should match our thoughts and actions. We need to walk our talk, give to what we believe in, be selfless and give to others. If we want to create a peaceful world, we need to focus on creating peace for others.

9. The Law of Here & Now

We can’t be present if we are looking backwards. In order to have peace of mind, we must embrace the present. This can only happen if we let go of negative thoughts or behaviours from our past. If we focus on past events, we will continue to relive them. Live in the present moment.

10. The Law of Change

History repeats itself until we learn from it and change our path. Take steps to do something different to prevent this repeating cycle. Change gives us a fresh path so that we can create a new future and a better version of ourselves.

11. The Law of Patience & Reward

The most valuable rewards require persistence. Consistent hard work pays off. Achieving great things takes time and patience. We need to love the little things we do during our journey to a big goal. By being consistent in our approach to goals and actions, eventually they will come to fruition.

12.The Law of Significance & Inspiration

Rewards result from the energy and effort we put into it. We all have a role and have something to contribute to the world. What we share, may seem small, but it can make a big difference in the lives of others. You may not always feel significant but you are.

I’ve shared these guidelines because I believe everyone should know them and I hope you found them helpful. If you would like more detail or clarity on the information that I have featured, I recommend you read Manhardeep Singh’s book 12 laws of Karma .

This week, why not pause for a few moments to reflect. Consider if any of these principles particularly resonate with you. If so, think of ways you can integrate the principle(s) into your life more often and consistently.

To arrange a free no obligation consultation, please contact Stephen Pauley via the contact form or by e mail: Stephen@befirstclass.co.uk

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