“If we did all the things that we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.” – Thomas Edison.

In last week’s blog, I talked how the Covid pandemic has presented many challenges and that lots of people have had to show great resilience.

We all face challenges, adversity, obstacles and set-backs at times in our lives. When in the middle of periods of misfortune or challenge it’s easy to lose perspective, become downhearted and wonder if things will ever improve. We can feel unable to be open about how we’re feeling or show our vulnerability.

This kind of phase in our life can have a detrimental effect on our levels of confidence and belief. However, sometimes we have to experience difficulty and tough times so that we can develop a greater appreciation of the good times and be grateful for the periods of pleasure.

When you set out to achieve a goal or a dream, whether it is starting a business, pursuing a new career, beginning a new hobby, looking to lose weight or commencing a fitness regime, it’s easy at the first sign of a setback to give up and settle for what’s known.

There are countless examples of the challenges that people encountered on the road to success.

We may never have heard a record from the Beatles, if they had taken rejection as a sign to not pursue their passion. When they first started out, a recording company turned them down and said “we don’t like your sound and guitar music is on the way out.”

Many people may not have viewed a Disney movie or visited Disneyworld if Walt Disney had given up when he was fired early in his career by a newspaper editor because “he lacked imagination and had no good ideas.”

He suffered business failure, bankruptcy and was turned down an incredible 302 times by banks when he was seeking funds to establish his theme park. He never gave up on his dream to create Disneyworld. It took him years of hard work, raising finance, dealing with disappointment but Disney stayed focused on his goal.

The Harry Potter movies and JK Rowling’s books are hugely popular across the world with lots of people. They may have been denied that pleasure; if she had let difficulties, she experienced in life hold her back. Prior to the books being published, she was virtually penniless, depending on welfare payments to survive and help to bring up her child as a single parent. She was divorced and suffered from depression. Her series of seven books have sold more than 450 million copies, won innumerable awards, been made into movies and transformed Rowling’s life.

Experiencing adversity can be a lesson. It can re-awaken us to the things that are far more important than money and material possessions; our health, our family and our friends.

An illness teaches us to be humble, to see every day as a gift, to live more in the moment and motivate us to lead a healthy life. A sudden loss in the family brings into sharp focus the cycle of birth, life and death. Losing a job can be a scary place for many people and create uncertainty. However, it can be the springboard for something new and exciting and the start of a whole new adventure.

Adversity can come to our lives to suggest that it’s time for us to change direction and do something new.

This week, why not pause for a few moments to reflect. Ask yourself what lessons you have learned from any challenges and adversity that you’ve experienced in your life. How can you better apply these lessons to your life moving forward?

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