A few weeks ago in the blog, I wrote about staying positive in a mad world in response to some of the senseless and dreadful events that have happened in the world.
There have been far too many over the past few months. These events have helped to create a climate of fear, negativity and anxiety.
I’ve been giving further thought to the topic and thinking about the daily small contributions we can all make to help the world to be a better place. Collectively these small personal actions will make a difference.
It was Gandhi who said “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” I have been wondering how we can apply this sentiment to ensure our relationships with others are constructive and our home and working environments are positive, harmonious and encouraging. In addition to staying positive another useful contribution we can make is to look for ways we can extend a little kindness and generosity to other people.
We can consider what actions and help we can offer to support our family, friends, neighbours and colleagues to be the best that they can be. In doing so, we can look for the good qualities in others and show gratitude for the contribution they make to the world. We can look for the blessings and gifts that we gain from challenging situations and be grateful for the good fortune we experience and all that we have in life.
Writing this piece reminded me of a quotation I came across many years ago. It’s called “A Bishop’s Tomb” and I’ve included it below. It was incorrectly claimed that it’s on a tomb in Westminster Abbey dating back to the 11th century. That isn’t the case but it doesn’t stop it being a thought provoking piece of writing.
A Bishop’s Tomb
When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world.
As I grew older and wiser I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country but it too seemed immovable.
As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me.
But alas, they would have none of it.
And now I realise as I lie on my deathbed, if I had only changed myself first, then by example I might have changed my family.
From their inspiration and encouragement I would then have been able to better my country.
And who knows, I might have even changed the world.
It’s a great reminder that we all have the ability to make a positive contribution to the world.
Change starts with ourselves and it’s our personal responsibility to lead by example and create the circumstances that we wish to experience. It also reminds us to not put off making that positive difference.
This week, why not take a few moments to reflect and consider what practical action steps you can take to help make your home and working environments a little better. How can you help to make them more harmonious, positive and productive?
This week’s quotation:
“Be the Change you wish to see in the world.” Mahatma Gandhi.
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