“Desire is the key to motivation, but it’s the determination and commitment to unrelenting pursuit of your goal – a commitment to excellence – that will enable you to attain the success you seek.” Mario Andretti.

As we move towards the end of 2021, many people will be thinking about goals they want to set for 2022 and things they want to change. Sadly, not everyone manages to follow through on their good intentions and accomplish their goals.

I’m a big advocate of personal goal setting and the merits have been validated by lots of people I’ve worked with who have successfully set and achieved their personal goals.

Setting personal goals ensures that time and energy is focused on what really matters. It enables people to fulfil more of their potential, to grow, develop and experience new things. It provides balance to life and a sense of accomplishment.

Goals don’t have to be massive. They can relate to fitness and health, hobbies, personal development or leisure such as places to visit, concerts to attend or days out to be arranged. It’s easy to overlook these things in the busyness of modern-day life if we don’t plan.

Here are a few goal setting tips:

Be specific about what you want to achieve

What would you specifically like to achieve and by when? For instance, “to lose weight” is a goal. However, a better goal would be “to lose one stone in weight by June 30th 2022.”

Get clarity on your why

Determine what’s driving and motivating you to want to achieve the goal and why it’s important to you. Getting clear on your motivations upfront helps you to maintain focus and remind you why you must persevere when you feel like quitting.

Get clear on your current position         

It helps to have an honest and objective assessment of your starting position and consider any action you have already taken or personal experience you can call upon. This helps you to quantify how realistic the goal is and what needs to be done.

Clarify any obstacles you need to overcome

Obstacles may be personal limitations or limiting beliefs or external factors such as a lack of time, money, knowledge or skills. By clarifying what needs to be overcome helps you to start to think about ideas and solutions.

Determine what support and resources you need

Do you need some help or support? What personal strengths, people or resources will help you to accomplish your goal? Would you find it helpful to be accountable to someone? Sharing our goals with others can establish an accountability mechanism. An accountability partner can check in on progress and provide encouragement or challenge if required.

Commit to action steps

Establish clear action steps which you are 100% committed to. You may find it useful to break large goals down into smaller chunks. This helps to prevent a big goal feeling overwhelming. Being in a state of overwhelm can lead to procrastination and stop us from making a start.

How will you celebrate?         

Determine at the start how you will celebrate and reward yourself when you achieve your goal. This provides added incentive and keeps you focused and motivated. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking about what we haven’t achieved and not take any time to celebrate and reward ourselves when we complete something.

This week, why not pause for a few moments and ask yourself the following question:

What will enable me to get better at setting and achieving personal goals?

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