“The quality, not the longevity, of one’s life is what is important.” – Martin Luther King.

I have just returned from a lovely holiday in Majorca. Whilst away and when I was looking at a lovely beach and surrounding scenery one day, the following story came to my mind.

Rocks, Pebbles and Sand

This story is a great metaphor with a powerful message about time management and priorities.

A philosophy professor stood before his class with some items in front of him. When class began, he wordlessly picked up a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks about two inches in diameter. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles, poured them into the jar and lightly shook it. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks. The students laughed. He asked his students again if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.

“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this is your life. The rocks are the important things; your family, your partner, your health, your children, anything that is so important to you that if it were lost, you would be nearly destroyed.

The pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller scale. The pebbles represent things like your job, your house, your car.

The sand is everything else, the small stuff.

If you put the sand or the pebbles into the jar first, there is no room for the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your energy and time on the small stuff, material things, you will never have room for the things that are truly most important

Pay attention to the things that are critical in your life. Play with your children. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the rubbish.

In your own life, be sure to take care of the rocks first, the things that really matter. Remember, the rest is only pebbles and sand”.

But then, a student took the jar which the other students and the professor agreed was full and proceeded to pour in a glass of wine. Of course, the wine filled the remaining spaces within the jar making the jar truly full.

The alternative moral of this tale is that, no matter how full your life is, there is always room for a nice glass of wine!

This week, why not pause for a few moments to reflect. Consider if there is any action you need to take to make more time for the “rocks” in your life.

Additionally, think about if there are changes you need to make to your daily schedule.

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